“If we stay focused on the problems, we attract more problems and make it worse.”
Focus and follow through are the two main things people forget about. The important thing is to really make the most about whatever it is that we want. We see people that have done things we wish we could do all the time and wonder if they got lucky or they are smarter than we are. As you go through this exploration of who you are, I highly recommend this book.
It goes into how we make decisions and how being focused on that happy place that helps us feel inspired. Changing our habits and not staying focused on the problems, but on the solution.
The change that you have been wanting with for years, that is the thing you need to move your mind, your heart and your focus away from that thing.